Picking Up Waitresses and Bartenders
Posted on June 29, 2009 Filed Under Approaching Women, Asking Women Out, Being A Challenge, Eye Contact, Flirting Tips, Nightclubs, Where To Meet Women | Leave a Comment
“Picking Up Waitresses and Bartenders”
A question that I get all the time is, “I don’t know
if this bartender is interested in me or not. Is she flirting
because she likes me, or is she just flirting for tips? How can
I tell?”
Well, I can tell you right now that in 90% of cases, a waitress
is flirting for tips. That’s just reality. Anyone who makes
a living in tips has learned the skills to flirt in his or
her way - be it the valet, the cab driver, or the ballhop.
Heck, even I am flirting with you right now - so that
you will buy my ebook, Right?
So…what should you do if you want to flirt with a waitress
or bartender?
First start by teasing her about bad service. Make
sure you keep a smile on your face to show you are just kidding.
For example. if you are ordering wine, show disgust when you
taste it. Then smile and say, “Bet you don’t get that very often.
Have you ever seen anyone send their wine back?”
Next, start to have longer and longer conversation
exchanges each time she comes to your table. Start talking about
things that are outside of her work environment and see how she
responds.
Build rapport based on non-threatening topics such as:
- Family
- Hobby
- Day Occupation
- Plans for the future
If she is more receptive to your advances than she is
to other customers, then go for her phone number *and* Facebook
account. (Some girls don’t want to give their numbers out but
don’t mind giving out their Facebok accounts.) Or even better,
instead of trying to get her number, ask her when her shift
ends and offer to meet her at the bar for a drink.
If that’s not possible, then tell her you’ll be with
some friends at a popular bar later on, and that she’s welcome
to join you. You can even offer her number so she can call you
if she needs a ride.
Beyond that, you will just have to leave it up to chance.
Waitresses and bartenders do get hit on a lot and may
not be interested in you. That’s okay. Just move on.
After all, they are paid to flirt back! So why
not just flirt and not worry about it?
For more dating tips, sign up for my dating newsletter
at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius
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“Marius…I just want to thank you for showing me all the little
secrets about attracting women. Thanks to you, I am now dating
the girl I’ve had a crush with for 2 years. We’re engaged and
getting married next fall! Thanks!”
-L.C. from Seattle, Washington
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(c)2009 Marius Panzarella, All Rights Reserved.
What If Your Parents Have Ruined Your Game
Posted on June 22, 2009 Filed Under Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Relationship Tips | Leave a Comment
“What If Your Parents Have Ruined Your Game”
One of the most common excuses I hear from my readers
is that they are not good with women because of their childhood
or past. Here are some of the excuses I’ve heard:
“I used to be good but my divorce has devastated me.”
“My mom has raised me to be polite around women.” (So?)
“I was a nerd back in high school…”
“I was not raised to be masculine.”
“Years of rejection have made me give up any hope.”
These men like to ask me for advice on how to overcome
their childhood or past problems so that they can become successful
with women.
Here is what I like to tell them:
You never overcome anything. You move on.
Listen. You cannot make your history go away. A part of
your history will always be a part of you. There’s no use to
blame anyone (including yourself) or to burden yourself with shame,
guilt, or remorse. There is no way to go back in time and fix
anything. What’s done is done. Move on.
If you choose to let go and dismiss the bad things
that have happened to you in the past, then you will be able
to look to the future and improve yourself. Your past circumstances
or mistakes will then just become old news.
As Carl Jung said, “People do not solve their
psychological problems, in my experience. They outgrow them.”
How about you? Are you willing to outgrow your past
problems?
If you want real power, you must learn to let go
of your past, period!
Really think hard about this.
And if you are ready to put your past behind and
make positive changes to your life, then consider getting
my “Smart Dating Course” at:
http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/smartdatingcourse.html
You’ll learn literally dozens and dozens of killer
techniques that you can use RIGHT AWAY. No more waiting for
my articles to come into your mailbox every morning and no
more trying to “connect all the dots together” yourself.
You’ll learn the BIGGER PICTURE and EXCATLY what it takes to
create ATTRACTION with the girl you want.
I honestly can’t think of a better or easier way to
improve your love life fast. So download your copy now at:
http://www.datingsupportcenter.com/smartdatingcourse.html
Thanks,
Marius
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“Marius…I just want to thank you for showing me all the little
secrets about attracting women. Thanks to you, I am now dating
the girl I’ve had a crush with for 2 years. We’re engaged and
getting married next fall! Thanks!”
-L.C. from Seattle, Washington
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(c)2009 Marius Panzarella, All Rights Reserved.
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