7 Inner Game Tips
Posted on August 5, 2008 Filed Under Confidence Tips, Dating Tips, Inner Game | Leave a Comment
“7 Inner Game Tips”
It has been awhile since I’ve written
about inner game, so today I am going to take
a break from philosophy and techniques and give
you ten keys to developing your inner game as
a Smart Dater.
1) Be Positive
The first key is to keep a positive
attitude towards life. This may sound like common
sense, but you wouldn’t believe how many guys I
talk to every week who are just too darn depressed
about life. How can you radiate charm and confidence
if you do not believe in yourself or if you always
think everyone is out to screw you? The guys with
positive attitudes ALWAYS win against guys with
negative attitudes or self-imposed limitations.
2) Forget About The Outcome
The second key to having a great inner game
is to ignore the potential outcome. Don’t worry
about what may happen if you approach a woman
or flirt with her. Just do it.
3) Focus On Having Fun
One easy way to forget about the outcome
is to focus on the fun and experience. Go out with
your buddies without worrying about whether you will
come home with a woman or not. Just focus on having
fun!
4) Take Small Steps
Don’t try to take on too much when you’re
just starting out. Taking small steps can help you
build confidence over time.
5) Focus On What You Can Change
If something is out of your control, such
as your height or looks, just ignore it. Focus on
what you can change instead. As I always say,
YOU are the environmental constant. No matter where
you are or how tough a situation us, YOU can control
what you do on YOUR end. So focus on what you
can do and do your very best. Ignore everything
else!
6) Be Adventurous And Try New Things
Be adventurous and just go out and experience
life. Don’t be afraid of trying out new things. It’s
how you expand your horizons and get better at
the game.
7) Create Opportunities
Don’t be the loser who reads my stuff but
stays at home. Don’t wait for women to approach
you. Go out there and create opportunities for
yourself.
Be Flirty
Be flirty and playful with all the girls
you meet, whether you are attracted to them or
not. Focus on the fun rather than the outcome!
9) Don’t Ignore The External
Make sure your external image reflects
what you’re trying to achieve internally.
Without proper external adjustments such as
grooming yourself properly or taking positive
actions, working on your inner game is nothing
but mental masturbation.
10) Balance Your Life
Balance your life so that you don’t
burn out. If your life consists of nothing
except chasing women, sooner or later you’re
going to find your life going downhill, and
your love life will get dragged down as
a result!
For more dating tips, check out
my dating tips newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend
Posted on July 31, 2008 Filed Under Asking Women Out, Dating Tips, Flirting Tips | Leave a Comment
“How To Turn A Friend Into A Girlfriend”
One of the most common questions
I get is, “Marius, how can I turn a friend
into a girlfriend?”
My Smart Dating Course
(http://datingsupportcenter.com/smartdatingcourse.html)
can teach you how, but here are some additional
tips…
In order for you to change the
kind of relationship you have with a girl,
you must change your attitude towards it
first. What I mean is, you can’t just try to
“get” her as a friend. You must look at
the dynamics of the relationship and change
it before anything can happen.
So…the first step to turning
your friend into a girlfriend is to change
your attitude towards this whole friendship.
This is very important. If you
continue treating her as a friend, then
she will continue treating YOU as a friend.
Forget you’re her friend for
a second. How would you attract her
now? THAT’s the key to your situation.
How playful would you be?
How subtle/blatant would you be?
How flirty would you be?
How sexual would you be?
Get these in your mind and
THEN you can start “acting” like the person
in your mind.
To turn her into a girlfriend,
you MUST first flirt with her and tease her.
Now…SHE must also change her
attitude before she will like you.
Otherwise, it will NEVER work.
She must realize there’s a
possibility of her liking you before
she will like you. Flirt with her, then give
her a little shock. Maybe a kiss while you’re
both drunk (No, I am NOT suggesting you get
her drunk). Just a little shock that may
let her realize she may like you. (Note
how I say realize SHE may like you, not
the other way around. DON’T shock her
by letting her know you like her. Because
if you do, she’s going to be freaked.)
In most “friendship into relationship”
cases I have encountered, an accident of
some kind happens. (Usually accidents are
what causes the change in attitude) Like
a sudden kiss or a sudden makeout session
while drunk. There MUST be a change that
screams “Maybe there’s something more to
this than pure friendship”. (And again,
note how I say accident. If she finds out
you like her before she likes you already,
you’re screwed!)
For more dating tips, check out
my dating tips newsletter at:
http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com
Thanks,
Marius Panzarella
